About This Bundle
 
Sexual struggle is one of the most common, most hidden, and most shame-loaded territories in Christian counselling. Pornography, masturbation, fantasy, sexual acting out, residual bonds from past relationships, secret behaviour in marriages — these are present in nearly every client roster and rarely surface without invitation. This bundle is that invitation, in structured form. Sexual brokenness almost never has a single cause. It can be a coping mechanism for stress, loneliness, or unmet emotional need. It can be a behavioural compulsion that has hijacked the reward system. It can be the after-shock of trauma. It can be the lingering pull of past relationships entered into physically before the heart was ready. And it can have spiritual roots no behavioural plan alone will reach. These seven assessments are designed to surface honesty across all three dimensions — spirit, soul, and body — without producing shame. Like all sexual integrity work, these tools are designed to surface honesty, not produce verdicts. Shame is the fuel of sexual struggle; these assessments are structured to invite truth-telling in a safe, non-shaming
way.
 
What's Included:
 
Sexual History & Formation — How your sexuality was shaped: earliest exposure, family of origin messages, sexual experience history, body and self messages, the spiritual frame.
Masturbation Patterns & Drivers — Honest mapping of frequency, compulsion, emotional drivers, fantasy, and cost. Designed to work for both men and women.
Pornography & Fantasy Use — Full-spectrum: visual pornography, written/audio/romance erotica, mental fantasy, and real-person fantasy. Surfaces the patterns that get missed when only video is named "porn."
Spiritual Roots Inventory — Generational patterns, vows and dedications, spiritual entry points, climate, and identity. Light-touch framing, suitable for cessationist and continuationist counsellors alike.
Trauma & Sexual Brokenness — Sexual abuse history, trauma bonds, body and dissociation, trauma-driven sexual patterns, and current healing resources.
Soul Ties & Emotional Bonds — Past sexual partners, emotional affairs, trauma-bonded attachments, active pull, and the release work that has (or hasn't) been done.
Spirit-Soul-Body Wholeness Self-Assessment — Integrative baseline across all three dimensions. Use it now, again in three months, again in six.